fix compile out of memory temporary (#28346)

cmake/external/pybind11.cmake

@@ -34,6 +34,7 @@ ExternalProject_Add(
         "${PYBIND_DOWNLOAD_CMD}"
         PREFIX            ${PYBIND_PREFIX_DIR}
         SOURCE_DIR        ${PYBIND_SOURCE_DIR}
+        UPDATE_COMMAND    ""
         CONFIGURE_COMMAND ""
         BUILD_COMMAND     ""
         INSTALL_COMMAND   ""

paddle/scripts/paddle_build.bat

@@ -248,7 +248,8 @@ echo Build third_party successfully!
 set build_times=1
 :build_paddle
 echo Build Paddle the %build_times% time:
-msbuild /m:%PARALLEL_PROJECT_COUNT% /p:TrackFileAccess=false /p:CLToolExe=clcache.exe /p:CLToolPath=%PYTHON_ROOT%\Scripts /p:Configuration=Release /verbosity:minimal paddle.sln
+::msbuild /m:%PARALLEL_PROJECT_COUNT% /p:TrackFileAccess=false /p:CLToolExe=clcache.exe /p:CLToolPath=%PYTHON_ROOT%\Scripts /p:Configuration=Release /verbosity:minimal paddle.sln
+msbuild /m:%PARALLEL_PROJECT_COUNT% /p:Configuration=Release /verbosity:minimal paddle.sln
 if %ERRORLEVEL% NEQ 0 (
     set /a build_times=%build_times%+1
     if %build_times% GTR 1 (